Would you tell a friend she’s overweight?

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This article explores the question of whether it is appropriate to tell a friend if you think they are overweight. One perspective argues that being honest with a friend about their weight could potentially change their life for the better, but it should be approached gently and with a focus on health concerns rather than looks. This perspective also emphasizes the importance of understanding a person's motivations and reasons for their weight in order to address them properly. On the other hand, another perspective argues that friends don't need shame and criticism, and that weight gain can often be a result of underlying issues such as medication side effects, stress, or emotional coping mechanisms. This perspective believes that pointing out a friend's weight can be tactless, unthoughtful, and humiliating. Ultimately, the article suggests that difficult conversations are important for forming strong bonds, but it is up to individuals to decide how to approach this sensitive topic with their friends. [Extracted from the article]

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