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In search of the Self à deux: the narcissistic collusion and impeded individuation.
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- Author(s): Nørby, Karolina (AUTHOR)
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Journal of Analytical Psychology. Feb2021, Vol. 66 Issue 1, p49-69. 21p. - Source:
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- Abstract: This paper examines the question of why the pattern of narcissistic object-relating (collusion) develops early in life and how it may impact the lifelong process of individuation. Narcissistic adult couple relationships are one of the arenas in which unresolved aspects of the past, alive in the present, are unconsciously brought and endlessly repeated with intensity. Adult relationships are often formed in the hope that both partners will wipe out their old wounds. However, despite apparent differences in overt social functioning, people unconsciously tend to select partners who are at the same basic level of personality differentiation, but who have opposite patterns of defensive organization. Primitive defences and projections, which are played out by the narcissistic couple, become a substitute for true identity. They can rigidify or disrupt the ego-Self axis rendering it inflexible. These dynamics inhibit the ability of the ego to gain access to the unconscious, and the Self to get access to the ego, disrupting the possibility of emergence of a dialogical relationship. This process creates obstacles to growth and individuation, which leads this author to suggest the notion of 'impeded individuation' in narcissism. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
- Abstract: El presente trabajo examina la pregunta sobre porqué el patrón de relación objetal narcisista (colusiones) se desarrolla en la vida temprana y cómo pude impactar el proceso de individuación a lo largo de toda la vida. Las relaciones de pareja narcisistas en la vida adulta, son una de las arenas en las cuales aspectos no resueltos del pasado, vivos en el presente, son inconscientemente revividos y repetidos eternamente con intensidad. Las relaciones adultas se forman a menudos con la esperanza de que ambos cónyuges se liberen de los viejos dolores. Sin embargo, a pesar de las aparentes diferencias en el funcionamiento social, las personas tienden inconscientemente a seleccionar parejas que tienen el mismo nivel básico de diferenciación de la personalidad, pero que tienen patrones de organización defensiva opuesta. Las defensas primitivas y las proyecciones, actuadas por la pareja narcisista, devienen una sustitución de la verdadera identidad. Estas pueden rigidizar o perturbar el eje ego‐Sí Mismo, volviéndolo inflexible. Estas dinámicas inhiben la habilidad del ego de abrirse paso al inconsciente, y al Sí Mismo de poder acceder al ego, perturbando la posibilidad de la emergencia de una relación dialógica. Este proceso crea obstáculos para el crecimiento y la individuación, lo cual lleva a la autora a sugerir la noción de 'individuación impedida' en el narcisismo. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
- Abstract: Cet article explore pourquoi le schéma de relation d'objet narcissique se développe tôt dans la vie et comment il peut impacter le processus d'individuation, processus qui se déroule tout au long de la vie. Les relations adultes et narcissiques de couple sont une des sphères dans lesquelles les aspects non résolus du passé, vivants dans le présent, sont inconsciemment suscités et répétés sans fin et avec intensité. Les relations adultes se forment souvent dans l'espoir que les deux partenaires vont éradiquer leurs vieilles souffrances. Cependant, malgré des différences apparentes dans le fonctionnement social manifeste, les gens ont inconsciemment tendance à choisir des partenaires qui sont au même niveau qu'eux en termes de différentiation de la personnalité, mais qui ont des schémas opposés en termes d'organisation défensive. Les défenses primitives et les projections, qui sont déployées par le couple narcissique, deviennent le substitut d'une identité véritable. Elles peuvent se rigidifier ou perturber l'axe égo‐Soi en le rendant inflexible. Ces dynamiques inhibent la capacité de l'égo à obtenir l'accès à l'inconscient et du Soi à obtenir l'accès à l'égo, entravant l'émergence d'une relation de dialogue. Ce processus crée des obstacles à la croissance et l'individuation, et amène l'auteur à suggérer la notion « d'individuation entravée » dans le narcissisme. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
- Abstract: In diesem Beitrag wird die Frage untersucht, warum sich das Muster narzißtischer objektbezogener Beziehungen (Kollusionen) früh im Leben entwickelt und wie es sich auf den lebenslangen Prozeß der Individuation auswirken kann. Narzißtische erwachsene Paarbeziehungen sind eine der Arenen, in die ungelöste Aspekte der Vergangenheit, die in der Gegenwart lebendig sind, unbewußt eingebracht und mit endloser Intensität wiederholt werden. Erwachsene Beziehungen werden oft in der Hoffnung eingegangen, daß beide Partner ihre alten Schmerzen auslöschen. Trotz ersichtlicher Unterschiede in der offenen sozialen Funktionsweise neigen Menschen unbewußt dazu Partner zu wählen, die sich auf derselben grundlegenden Ebene der Persönlichkeitsdifferenzierung befinden, aber entgegengesetzte Organisationsmuster der Abwehr aufweisen. Primitive Abwehren und Projektionen, die das narzißtische Paar ausspielt, werden zum Ersatz für echte Identität. Sie können die Ich‐Selbst‐Achse verfestigen oder zerreißen, wodurch sie unflexibel wird. Diese Dynamik hemmt die Fähigkeit des Ego, Zugang zum Unbewußten zu erlangen und das Selbst, Zugang zum Ego zu erhalten, wodurch die Möglichkeit der Entstehung einer dialogischen Beziehung unterbunden wird. Dieser Prozeß erzeugt Hindernisse für Wachstum und Individuation, was diesen Autor dazu veranlaßte, den Begriff der 'behinderten Individuation' im Narzißmus vorzuschlagen. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
- Abstract: Questo articolo esamina la questione del perché il modello delle relazioni oggettuali narcisistiche (collusioni) si sviluppa presto nella vita e come può avere un impatto sul continuo processo di individuazione. Le relazioni della coppia adulta narcisistiche sono una delle arene in cui gli aspetti irrisolti del passato, vivi nel presente, vengono portati inconsciamente e ripetuti all'infinito con intensità. Le relazioni adulte si formano spesso nella speranza che entrambi i partner spazzino via i loro vecchi dolori. Tuttavia, nonostante le apparenti differenze nel funzionamento sociale manifesto, le persone tendono inconsciamente a selezionare partner che si trovano allo stesso livello di base di differenziazione della personalità, ma che hanno modelli opposti di organizzazione difensiva. Le difese e le proiezioni primitive, messe in atto dalla coppia narcisistica, diventano un sostituto della vera identità. Possono rendere rigido o compromettere l'asse Io‐Sé, rendendolo inflessibile. Queste dinamiche inibiscono l'abilità dell'Io di accedere all'inconscio e del Sé di accedere all'Io, interrompendo la possibilità dell'emergere di una relazione dialogica. Questo processo crea ostacoli alla crescita e all'individuazione, che ha portato l'Autrice a suggerire la nozione di "individuazione impedita" nel narcisismo. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
- Abstract: В статье исследуется вопрос о том, почему паттерн нарциссических объектных отношений (сговора) развивается в ранние годы жизни и как это может повлиять на длящийся всю жизнь процесс индивидуации. Нарциссические отношения во взрослой паре – это одна из арен, на которой неразрешенные вопросы прошлого, ожившие в настоящем, бессознательно и бесконечно воспроизводятся с новой силой. Взрослые отношения часто формируются с надеждой, что оба партнера смогут избавиться от старых ран. Однако несмотря на очевидные различия в социальном плане люди бессознательно выбирают партнеров, которые находятся на таком же базовом уровне личностной дифференцированности, но которые имеют противоположные паттерны защит. Примитивные защиты и проекции, которые разыгрываются нарциссической парой, становятся заменой истинной идентичности. Они могут затвердить или нарушить функционирование оси Эго – Самость, сделав ее негибкой. Такая динамика подавляет способность эго быть на связи с бессознательным, а Самости – с эго. Возникновение диалогических отношений оказывается под большим вопросом. Появляются препятствия на пути к росту и индивидуации, что привело автора к гипотезе «затрудненной индивидуации» в случае нарциссизма. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
- Abstract: 本文探索为什么自恋性的客体关系模式 (共谋)在人生早期进行发展, 以及它如何影响伴随一生的自性化过程。自恋性的成人夫妇关系是一个竞技场, 在其中, 过往未解决的仍然活跃的那些层面, 被无意识地代入, 并以一定的强度无尽地重复。人们在构建成人关系的时候常常希望伴侣双方可以擦掉他们过往的伤。然而, 除了在社会功能的明显困难之外, 人们无意识地倾向于选择的那些伴侣往往和我们具有同等基本水平的人格困难, 和不同的防御模式。自恋的伴侣会上演原始防御和投射, 成为一个真实身份的替代品。它们会僵化或是破坏自我‐自性轴, 让它变得顽固。这些动力抑制了自我获取无意识联系的能力, 以及自性去联系自我的能力, 破坏了对话性关系的产生可能。这一过程给成长和自性化带来障碍, 这一状况引发作者提出:自恋中"受妨碍的自性化"的观点。 [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR]
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